Saturday, May 9, 2009

Ongoing adventures of Adam and Tara: Berlin

Here's Tara at what's left of the Berlin wall. As usual, Adam's behind the camera.

Tara just got a new racing bike so Adam will never catch up to her now. When we were biking together last year he threatened to buy a scooter and wait for us in the pubs in each town along the way.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Trekking in Nepal

It was the winter of 2000, two years after my original breast cancer diagnosis, and I was travelling to Nepal looking for adventure. What I didn't realize was that it would be a spiritual journey and that the people there would teach me something about happiness.

We had been climbing up, up, up for most of the first day of an 11 day trek. I had done a fair bit of hiking in the Gatineau Hills, so the uphill wasn’t new to me. However, I wasn’t prepared when the trail suddenly turned a corner and continued on the side of a mountain, with a sheer drop on one side. I was never fond of heights (what was I doing on a mountain in Nepal one might ask…), but I had never experienced severe vertigo before. But there I was, literally clinging to the side of the mountain, unable to move one foot in front of another. After what seemed like an eternity of coaxing by my companions and guides - when it became clear that there was no rescue helicopter coming for me - I decided that I had no choice but to move forward. It was 4 days before I could relax and finally appreciate the most spectacular view that I have ever seen.

Our group of 15 women was travelling with a huge entourage of sherpas, porters and cooks. Many of the porters wore only rubber flip-flops, while carrying our duffle bags, tents, food, dishes, and everything else we needed for the trip on their backs. Every night when we arrived at camp, our tents were set up and waiting for us, along with a dining tent with table and folding chairs. How they managed to prepare and serve such wonderful food in the middle of nowhere I’ll never know. Every morning they were up before us to serve breakfast, pack up the camp, and start the whole process over again.
These people worked incredibly hard for very little pay. You would think that when they were done for the day, they would fall asleep exhausted. But no, when the work was done, it was then time to party. They sang Nepali folk songs and danced and laughed like they were the happiest people on the planet. Some of my favorite memories of the trip are of dancing by firelight, on the side of a mountain, with a sky full of stars that sparkled brighter than any disco ball from the 80’s.
Because we took a trade route rather than a tourist route, we passed through small villages that seldom see western faces. The children ran up and down the steep slopes like mountain goats. They had nothing, yet they appeared to have not a care in the world.

While taking a break one afternoon, a Nepali woman came and sat beside me on a rock. She hesitantly reached out and touched my blonde hair, obviously fascinated by it. I took it out of the pony tail I was wearing so she could have a better look. She offered me some seeds that she was carrying in a shawl wrapped around her waist. I have no idea what I was eating but we sat together, munching on the seeds, communicating somehow, even though we didn't speak the same language.

The only time we camped more than 1 night was near a monastery run by Buddhist nuns. We awoke both mornings to the sound of a conk shell calling the nuns to prayer. They were gracious enough to invite us to join them, which we did, still sleepy eyed and wrapped in our sleeping bags. Two hours of chanting in a language that I didn’t understand went by amazingly fast. I remember feeling a sense of belonging and love, as if all was well with the universe.

Namaste

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

10,000 hits

Wow! I just noticed that my blog has had 10,000 hits since I started counting in October! I guess it's not just my mom that's reading my daily ramblings...

Thanks to everyone who has given me encouragement to keep posting. It's very therapeutic and I've made some great connections along the way.

Picton with my road-hos

Thanks to Chris’ Jocks (Run for the Cure team), I got to spend a night at the lovely Waring House in Picton with friends this weekend. They received 2 gift certificates for 2 and they kindly gave one to me. There was a draw for the other one and my road-ho Vanessa won it. (According to an online slang dictionary I consulted, road-ho means “female travel companion”. Am I cool yet? Do people still say “cool”?)

In the picture: Vanessa, Tara, Melanie & Chris

We invited Melanie & Tara along to round out our foursome. After a picnic lunch at the Lake on the Mountain, we hit the shops in Picton and then spent some down time on our balcony at the Waring House with a few bottles of wine. I threw my healthy eating plan out the window and enjoyed a yummy dinner and breakfast. What’s a gal to do?


Saturday, May 2, 2009

How YOU doin'?

In this week’s column, Sue Hendler shares some humorous and honest answers to the question that people with cancer are asked every day: How are you doing?

In case you are wondering, I'm doing great today. Well, that depends on who you are... :-)


To read more columns by Sue Hendler, click on her name below after Labels.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Stories of Trials, Perseverance and Hope

Surprise, surprise. I’m not the only woman living with advanced cancer that has a blog. :-)

When I read what others write online, I often want to link to videos or other websites that they reference. In the interest of sharing information (not just stealing other people’s links!) here is a video I found on Laurie K’s blog, featuring women living with metastatic breast cancer.

Metastatic Breast Cancer: Stories of Trials, Perseverance, and Hope
Laurie’s Blog

Cottage Dreams

I had an interview with a woman from an organization called Cottage Dreams this afternoon. The purpose of the program is to provide cancer survivors time away at a donated cottage with their families and/or friends. I don’t know for sure if I will get a cottage, but it is looking good for a week this summer.

For more information: Cottage Dreams